This is all great, but there’s one pretty big side effect: faced with classes, nightly learning team meetings, recruiting for summer internships, clubs, Darden Cup*, and other social events, there’s a pervasive fear of missing out. FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) is perhaps one of my favorite memes that’s come out of the last year, because it so accurately describes the feeling I haveconstantly. Finish preparing the Marketing case for tonight’s learning team meeting or go to a meeting to hear about the Global Business Excursions? Call an alum at a company I want to work for or go to the Decision Analysis review session for the exam? Go to Cold Call** to unwind after a long week with a free beer and (not dinner) “light snack” of lasagna or take a nap before TNDC?**
The most common time I’ve had FOMO this fall has been on Friday nights. For the past several months, I’ve been training for the Baltimore Marathon. That means that every Friday night, I go to bed by 10 so that I can get up the next morning at 5 am or so to meet with a group for a long run around Charlottesville or the surrounding counties. Even though I’m normally exhausted by the time Friday night rolls around, I would normally much rather go out with classmates than go to bed early.
But training for this race is really important to me because I’m running it for my Grandpa. A few years ago, he passed away after a very painful battle with Leukemia. I am fundraising and training with the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society’s Team in Training to help find a cure to blood cancers. Every four minutes, someone in the US is diagnosed with a blood cancer, and every ten minutes, one of those people loses their battle with one of these cancers.
Tomorrow, I will run the Baltimore Marathon and while I’m struggling up the hills of the last 9 miles, I will be thinking of my Grandpa. Together with the other 500,000+ Team in Training volunteers around the country, I will be fighting to prevent the pain my grandfather experienced and the immense grief my family felt from his loss. And for this, I will gladly go to bed early.
*One of my favorite things about Darden. All five sections of the first year class compete in events throughout the year, including softball, flag football, trivia, and a men’s high-heeled race (sponsored by the Graduate Women in Business and Gays, Lesbians, and Allies at Darden clubs), to name the competitions we’ve had so far. There is FIERCE (but friendly) competition and everyone gets really into it. Section E, which I have been lucky enough to be randomly selected for, is the reigning champ, having won for the past four years. Section E alums, second years, and professors have been clear from the beginning about how much pressure we face (from them) to continue the dynasty. We won’t let Section B get in our heads with their weird traditions surrounding a ragged stuffed bird or their wildly inaccurate comparisons of Section E to Slytherin House.
**Just a few of the social events put on by the Darden Student Association.